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nyredhawk Off-Campus Slummer

Joined: 07 Jan 2009 Posts: 170 Location: New York
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Posted: Tue Apr 10, 2012 8:18 pm Post subject: Sigma Chi shuttered |
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Don't know how the rest of you feel, but I was not unhappy Sigma Chi voted itself closed. I was at Miami from 1974-78 and went to check it out as a freshman but when they realized I was Jewish, they walked me out the door and pointed me to the Sammy house.
I had some friends that pledges there and remained friends but would never go inside the house. When we took my daughter to see Miami in the spring of 2009 to see if Miami was a fit for her - she chose Northwestern - she marveled at the Sigma Chi architecture when we parked by Millett but all I did was cringe. Back then they were not the only Greeks that eschewed Jews and African-Americans. Beta Theta Pi and Phi Delta Theta did as well. A sad commentary on the times and I hope if they are allowed back they are inclusive and not filled with narrow-minded bigots and racists. I still love Miami and wanted my daughter to go, but not all my memories are positive. _________________ I thought I was too old, too interesting and too cool to post on sites like this. How wrong I was. |
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redhawks628 Wealthy Alum


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Posted: Tue Apr 10, 2012 8:35 pm Post subject: |
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| Yay for the further devaluation of all young alumni's degrees in the greater Cincinnati area! |
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AORedhawk33 Wealthy Alum


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Posted: Tue Apr 10, 2012 8:41 pm Post subject: |
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These guys were total meatheads.. not surprised at all
Only a matter of time before they do away with all frats and sororities at Miami _________________ Can't start a fire without a spark |
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thechuck_2112 Truck Killah!

Joined: 13 Nov 2002 Posts: 32039 Location: drinking Hennessy with Morrissey on a beach out of reach somewhere very far away
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Posted: Tue Apr 10, 2012 8:48 pm Post subject: |
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It's not the 1970s any more, by a long shot. Fraternity culture has changed as youth culture has changed. When I was at Miami, the Greek system was open to members of all races and creeds (although fraternities with traditional ties to ethnic or religious groups often attracted other members of those groups due to self-selection). I don't recall hearing of any people being shut out because of the color of their skin or who they did (or didn't) pray to. Sexual orientation was a different story, but a number of houses were open to people who weren't heterosexual.
But there are some things that, it seems, don't really change. Here's what finally got the national to pull the charter:
| Quote: | | A source with knowledge of the situation said the chapter lost its charter following a number of “issues” including hazing that occurred in front of the chapter’s live-in advisor, as well as drug incidences. The source said all members of the fraternity are required to be out of the house by Wednesday. |
Elsewhere in the article, the Student mentions that the live-in advisor was placed there by the national in January. If you're hazing pledges in front of an advisor the national has put there because you're already on double-secret probation, you may well deserve to lose your charter for sheer stupidity.
http://www.miamistudent.net/news/sigma-chi-loses-charter-1.2843143#.T4Tg-e0R3lc
In any event, I wish Sigma Chi the best upon their return, and I hope it works out for the best for them. _________________ "Psycho was low on talent. Psycho was low on athleticism. Psycho can play on my team any day. Psycho has the biggest heart of any player I have seen."
--mollautt
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redskins4ever Wealthy Alum


Joined: 25 Mar 2002 Posts: 7462 Location: Westlake!! NO LONGER IN THE HELL OF TOLEDO!
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Posted: Tue Apr 10, 2012 8:49 pm Post subject: |
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| AORedhawk33 wrote: | These guys were total meatheads.. not surprised at all
Only a matter of time before they do away with all frats and sororities at Miami |
Keep dreaming.
Fraternities come and go, its a staple of who Miami is, and their largest donors come from these individuals. _________________
Miami University - Building a Culture of Champions and Leaders since 1809
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kamuohio Wealthy Alum


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Posted: Tue Apr 10, 2012 8:50 pm Post subject: |
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They have always been an unfortunate black eye for the greek community. Not going to miss them at all.
As for doing away with the greek system I don't see that happening (at least I hope not). The greek experience was an essential part of my time at Miami and I am proud to have been part of a fantastic house with high moral values. _________________ Love and Honor |
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thechuck_2112 Truck Killah!

Joined: 13 Nov 2002 Posts: 32039 Location: drinking Hennessy with Morrissey on a beach out of reach somewhere very far away
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Posted: Tue Apr 10, 2012 8:53 pm Post subject: |
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Miami won't do away with fraternities because Miami can't really do away with fraternities. Only the national can. If Beta wants to have a chapter at the corner of High and Campus in a house they own, who's going to stop them? Is Miami going to expel people who belong to it? (Sororities are a slightly different story given Miami's weird circumstances, but that could probably be handled easily enough.) _________________ "Psycho was low on talent. Psycho was low on athleticism. Psycho can play on my team any day. Psycho has the biggest heart of any player I have seen."
--mollautt
"You white people are crazy!" -- Matt Sussman
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JWags Wealthy Alum

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Posted: Tue Apr 10, 2012 8:54 pm Post subject: |
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| AORedhawk33 wrote: |
Only a matter of time before they do away with all frats and sororities at Miami |
I think that's a bit rash.
That being said, from the article..
| Quote: | | Some members also repeatedly used illegal drugs, got into trouble with excessive alcohol consumption, and were “fostering a thirst to create and cause physical and mental harm to others,” the fraternity’s headquarters said in a letter to Miami administrators. |
That bolded portion honestly sums up my feelings on that particular house. There are some good Sigma Chi's, I knew one or two in my time there, but that is without a doubt the only house at Miami I consistently felt uncomfortable and at risk frequently. I went to a few parties there and once had a friend get punched out without a word due to a mistaken identity, and another friend nearly jumped by 3 brothers who didn't recognize him on his way back from the bathroom before a mutual acquaintance who had invited us intervened. There will always be frat guys who don't want "random" dudes in their house during parties for a variety of reasons, but that was the only house in my experience where simply being there could end up with you getting knocked the F out. _________________ http://velvetblazer.blogspot.com |
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HoosierHawk Wealthy Alum


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Posted: Tue Apr 10, 2012 9:03 pm Post subject: |
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I refereed/umpired for intramurals for 3 years, which meant I saw a lot of each frat. Only one or two houses with major culture problems. This house was one of them.
My dad was a sigma chi chapter president (not at Miami) and I knew from almost the moment I stepped on campus I wanted nothing to do with that house. |
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nyredhawk Off-Campus Slummer

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Posted: Tue Apr 10, 2012 9:11 pm Post subject: |
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I will assume none of you belong to a Miami minority. If you did, your responses MIGHT reflect that. Imagine being called a kike playing softball or when we played them in other sports, knowing if you fought back there were much more of them than there were of you.
Me? I responded as I did growing up here in New York.....So, yes, I am glad they have been shamed. You guys have no experience as an outsder. _________________ I thought I was too old, too interesting and too cool to post on sites like this. How wrong I was. |
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killgas20 The Fan The Hoops Team Fears

Joined: 08 Feb 2002 Posts: 6264 Location: Ventura, CA
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Posted: Tue Apr 10, 2012 9:17 pm Post subject: |
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Another Alpha chapter at Miami being disbanded. I remember when this happened to the Betas while I was at Miami.
Some thoughts/questions:
-- 35 current members seems a bit low for membership. What is the average for a fraternity at Miami? Also, 22 of them were sophomores. I assume this chapter was having issues retaining members? If 30% were given alumni status in January, that would mean 50 total? Still seems a bit low.
-- Police stationed in the house for 65 straight hours? Holy Moley!
-- What is alumni status? How do fraternities have alumni parties if alumni status means you cannot interact with the active chapter in any way?
I was not in a fraternity at Miami, but everyone I knew that was in one never treated me any different. _________________ MIAMI. PRAYER. ANSWERED! -- Steve Baker 12/3/2010
OH MY!!!....WHOAAAA JON!!! -- Joe Barry 2/5/11
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HoosierHawk Wealthy Alum


Joined: 23 Feb 2006 Posts: 4260 Location: Indianapolis
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Posted: Tue Apr 10, 2012 9:18 pm Post subject: |
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| nyredhawk wrote: | I will assume none of you belong to a Miami minority. If you did, your responses MIGHT reflect that. Imagine being called a kike playing softball or when we played them in other sports, knowing if you fought back there were much more of them than there were of you.
Me? I responded as I did growing up here in New York.....So, yes, I am glad they have been shamed. You guys have no experience as an outsder. |
No, there just isnt overt hate going on at miami anymore. I am Jewish and never had any trouble at Miami. I would guess every fraternity at Miami is diverse too now, but don't have stats. Times have changed. |
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nyredhawk Off-Campus Slummer

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Posted: Tue Apr 10, 2012 9:22 pm Post subject: |
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That's good news - thanks for sharing it. _________________ I thought I was too old, too interesting and too cool to post on sites like this. How wrong I was. |
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kamuohio Wealthy Alum


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Posted: Tue Apr 10, 2012 9:25 pm Post subject: |
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| nyredhawk wrote: | I will assume none of you belong to a Miami minority. If you did, your responses MIGHT reflect that. Imagine being called a kike playing softball or when we played them in other sports, knowing if you fought back there were much more of them than there were of you.
Me? I responded as I did growing up here in New York.....So, yes, I am glad they have been shamed. You guys have no experience as an outsder. |
Wow not sure when you went to school but I know that kind of crap didn't occur in my house or any of the greek interactions I had (yes I am sure there was an element in some houses I never interacted with like the one we are discussing). My fraternity was diverse by Miami standards anyways (not all that diverse of a school) and that was on of the best things about it. _________________ Love and Honor |
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laxmom Wealthy Alum

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Posted: Tue Apr 10, 2012 9:29 pm Post subject: |
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| nyredhawk wrote: | I will assume none of you belong to a Miami minority. If you did, your responses MIGHT reflect that. Imagine being called a kike playing softball or when we played them in other sports, knowing if you fought back there were much more of them than there were of you.
Me? I responded as I did growing up here in New York.....So, yes, I am glad they have been shamed. You guys have no experience as an outsder. |
while your initial premise may be true, i think most of the comments above were not positive about Sigma Chi and reflected negative impressions of Sigma Chi. They were largely jerks when i was at Miami in the late 70s as well. |
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Fred Sofen Wealthy Alum

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Posted: Tue Apr 10, 2012 9:38 pm Post subject: |
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When I rushed, I got along very well with almost every member. However, I recall (at least) one member was going to blackball me because I am Jewish. I had created enough of a bond with several important members of the house (my Big Brother was chapter pres) and the one "brother" in particular was essentially shamed into not giving me a blackball. Part of his problem was he had never met a Jew (this is in 1969-70.) I never had any propblem with the guys, except a little harmless ribbing at times (as in one of my pledge brothers, now one of my closest friends for 40+ years) referred to my car as the "Yom Kippur Clipper." I took it in jest because of our relationship.
As for Sig's, I had been told that they were "restricted" and never set foot in their house--nor did I have any Sigma Chi friends, now that I think about it. |
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nyredhawk Off-Campus Slummer

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Posted: Tue Apr 10, 2012 9:44 pm Post subject: |
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I graduated in 1978 and am glad Fred you were well treated, excepy for the ribbing you took. Might have been a joke, but if you had made a joke about the pope or something about Sigma Chi members looking like college versions of klansmen you'd have gotten your ass kicked. Plain and simple. _________________ I thought I was too old, too interesting and too cool to post on sites like this. How wrong I was. |
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MiamiMAC Wealthy Alum


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Posted: Tue Apr 10, 2012 9:46 pm Post subject: |
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| nyredhawk wrote: | I will assume none of you belong to a Miami minority. If you did, your responses MIGHT reflect that. Imagine being called a kike playing softball or when we played them in other sports, knowing if you fought back there were much more of them than there were of you.
Me? I responded as I did growing up here in New York.....So, yes, I am glad they have been shamed. You guys have no experience as an outsder. |
My fraternity in the in the early 90's had:
Jews
African-American (President)
South East Asian
Indian
Caucasian
Hispanic
Texan (we are our own special breed)
A ssholes
Stoners
Band People
Varsity Athletes
Geeks
Fat Guys
Morons
Gay (Closeted until after graduation, but no real news there)
ASG
Drunks
Others
With 110 guys in a house there isn't much room for overt hatred of any type. Things have changed since the 70's. Collectively we appeared to be idiots to everyone outside our house. Reality is that we had a higher average GPA the general student body and donate in higher percentages as well.
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nyredhawk Off-Campus Slummer

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Posted: Tue Apr 10, 2012 9:54 pm Post subject: |
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When I was a freshman we played the Phi Delts in softball and their catcher called our pitcher a whining kike. When I batted next and came home on a single I knocked the catcher over, picked up a bat and stuck it in his face and said if anyone from his house made another anti-semitic comment I would find them and teach them a valuable lesson in tolerance. I wrote a letter to the Student outlining what happened and went uptown one night with an African American friend, who was 6'7" and had the same chat with the president of the house. He apologized. I said something not too nice and walked away. The 1970s in Oxford were both wonderful and dreadful.
I still love Miami and hope one day to retire in Oxford. _________________ I thought I was too old, too interesting and too cool to post on sites like this. How wrong I was. |
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CherryCoke Wealthy Alum


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Posted: Tue Apr 10, 2012 10:11 pm Post subject: |
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| killgas20 wrote: |
-- What is alumni status? How do fraternities have alumni parties if alumni status means you cannot interact with the active chapter in any way? |
I was wondering this as well. |
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Hawkburgh Wealthy Alum


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Posted: Tue Apr 10, 2012 10:59 pm Post subject: |
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| CherryCoke wrote: | | killgas20 wrote: |
-- What is alumni status? How do fraternities have alumni parties if alumni status means you cannot interact with the active chapter in any way? |
I was wondering this as well. |
While definitions can differ, this is typically a way in which to remove undergrad members from the organization for any number of reasons. Upon graduation, they are generally treated like other alumni of the fraternity. Probably varies by organization a bit.
As for diversity, in the 80's my fraternity had some Jewish members, including my big brother, and two African-Americans as well as an overall interesting mix of people. I am the faculty/alumni advisor to that fraternity now.
I am also the faculty advisor to a second, newer fraternity that is a neighbor of Sigma Chi. Exemplary. Among the most diverse groups I've ever seen on campus, rarely alcohol on premises, spends hours and hours on community service. Stellar GPA. It's hard being their advisor because there's nothing for me to do! I was there this evening, and it was interesting seeing the police cars still at Sigma Chi. |
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I am 4Hawks Wealthy Alum


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Posted: Tue Apr 10, 2012 11:42 pm Post subject: |
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Sounds like they were given every chance to get their act together and just couldn't/wouldn't do it. Hopefully a four-five year break will let the idiocy die off and they can give it another try. _________________ Season ticket holder football and hockey since 1995
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Miami, (Oh)-Yeah ! Wealthy Alum


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Posted: Wed Apr 11, 2012 12:27 am Post subject: |
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Weren't they shut-down for a year or two in the 90's too?
I remember the newspaper title:
"Say Good-bye to Sigma Chi" _________________ THOSE WHO STAY WILL BE CHAMPIONS! |
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nyredhawk Off-Campus Slummer

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Posted: Wed Apr 11, 2012 7:03 am Post subject: |
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Hawkburgh,
I am curious which fraternity you belonged to that had such terrific diversity. Care to share?
I myself became a Sammy because it was easiest given the Greek temperature at the time. When we had pledges go through I would vote for whomever I liked without worrying whether they were Jewish. By my senior year the Sammy house was fairlt diverse. A few years ago we closed down the house because the brothers mistreated the physical house and because they became an embarrassment. After a few years, the house recolonized and from what I understand the miscreant quotiont has been brought down to near zero.
I hope the same for Sigma Chi, but at the same time I do revel in their woes because of a despicable past. _________________ I thought I was too old, too interesting and too cool to post on sites like this. How wrong I was. |
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mollautt Credible Threat and Board Hussy

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Posted: Wed Apr 11, 2012 7:17 am Post subject: |
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| Miami, (Oh)-Yeah ! wrote: | Weren't they shut-down for a year or two in the 90's too?
I remember the newspaper title:
"Say Good-bye to Sigma Chi" |
=>Yep. During the 1994-95 school year.
2 of the infractions I am told by a former Sig member that lead to it were the hazing activities know as the "elephant walk" and eating pizza topped with the "DNA sauce" of the other members.
Each would make me vomit.
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