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PostPosted: Thu Jun 10, 2004 11:35 am    Post subject: Determining moment in decision to attend Miami? Reply with quote

MUfan suggested this topic over in the "overrated/underrated food" thread:

What, exactly, was the determining moment in your decision to attend Miami?

During my senior year of high school, I was down to four schools: Notre Dame, Swarthmore, Davidson, and Miami. I did overnight visits everywhere. I ruled out Swarthmore and Notre Dame because I didn't receive any financial aid (and they were thus out of my reach). Although I didn't get any money from Davidson either, I was convinced I'd end up a Wildcat as I had fallen utterly in love with the place when I first visited as a sixth-grader for my dad's reunion. So it was down to Davidson and Miami.

I did an overnight visit at Miami in the middle of April, right before I had to send in my deposit and all that stuff. My host had an exam (evil professor, doing that right before finals week) during the day, so I wandered around Oxford aimlessly--Uptown has to be uphill, right, so that's how you get there?--and found Looney T. Bird's. Earlier that week, I had handed in my senior English research paper, a 30-page opus on the history of British progressive rock. As I perused the selection at Looney's, I saw a used copy of what many consider to be the first prog album, King Crimson's In the Court of the Crimson King, on the shelves.

It was at that moment that I knew I could go to Miami.

Mind you, I hated my first semester here because of roommate issues. In fact, I was thisclose to sending in a transfer application to Davidson. But it was a CD at Looney T. Bird's I saw on an April afternoon in 2000 that got me to come to Miami. (And besides, once I was rid of that &*@#&( roommate after freshman year, things got much, much better.)
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PostPosted: Thu Jun 10, 2004 11:59 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

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As for my determining moment........picture this........late April, 1988, my father and I after a long 6-hr drive, pulled up to the corner of Campus and High - start of the slant walk. It was around 3pm, a beautiful day......my first exposure to Oxford and Miami.........we were the first car at the light.

We looked around, and in every direction were the most beautiful co-eds I'd ever seen. With a sheepish smile on my face, I turned to my dad and said, "I think I'd like it here!".


Add to this.........After my senior year of HS football, I was being mildly recruited by some DIII schools up here in Michigan for running back (Alma College, Albion College - where my older brother played football). I decided to go to Alma (about 30 miles away) and play football, when, after too many concussions, my doctor highly recommended I not participate in any more contact sports. This was in July after graduation, about 4 weeks before training camp was to start.

I made my decision to not play, and the coach threw a fit. I decided to not attend Alma at all, and having been accepted into Miami, I checked into seeing if I could still go. They said sure, so I made the switch. Spent the first week of classes in overflow housing, which was the basement of Havinghurst. There was about 6 of us in a large room with bunkbeds. Wasn't until the next Sunday that I finally got put into a room in Dennison Hall.
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PostPosted: Thu Jun 10, 2004 12:08 pm    Post subject: Re: Determining moment in decision to attend Miami? Reply with quote

thechuck_2112 wrote:
What, exactly, was the determining moment in your decision to attend Miami?

Probably the December 1983 day when I walked out to the mailbox and opened the financial aid offer [sic] from Penn. Wink

More seriously, I think the seeds were planted the summer during my elementary school years that the Old Bobcat took graduate classes at both Miami and IU. We lived on Western Campus for several weeks, and Devil Bro and I attended a summer ecology day camp run by Miami students. It was the best thing I had ever done, and I learned my way around all the woods in and around Oxford. When I got invited down for a recruiting day my last year of high school, I was already pretty familiar with the place and predisposed to like it.
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PostPosted: Thu Jun 10, 2004 12:10 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

The first time in Oxford. Driving up 27. Farm, farm, farm, farm, farm, Millville, farm, house, farm.............., Miami!

There is nothing like it. Driving down Talawanda St on a Saturday afternoon towards Millett.

.........Then Ron Harper dunked.
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PostPosted: Thu Jun 10, 2004 12:29 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Schools in the south are a little bit different.

One could make a legitimate argument that there are at lease 5-10 good schools in the state of Ohio to get a solid education (taking out such factors as campus beauty or size). OSU, UC, Miami, OU, BGSU, Case Wes all make the list.

Back home, its typically 1-3 solid schools per state (excluding tiny schools like Samford, Elon, Furman, and Davidson). In my case in Georgia, the only 3 were UGA, Tech, and Emory. I'm not a math guy so tech was out, Emory was too expensive and UGA has 45,000 students.

So although I would remain a staunch Bulldog Fan, I looked outside of the state. It came down to Miami, IU, Notre Dame and College of Charleston.

I chose Miami because of the campus tour I took. The tour featured a group of female triplets who still to this day rank as some of the most stunning looking females I had ever seen. I was shocked at how pretty they were and thus chose Miami over IU and CC (I was wait listed at Notre Dame).

I had decided to call the triplets Friday, Saturday and Sunday....

To this day I'm still looking for them.
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PostPosted: Thu Jun 10, 2004 12:37 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Mine is a story in two parts. My first actual visit to Miami was in the winter of my senior year (not to be confused with the "winter of my discontent," but I digress). I had just spent the morning touring Wittenburg University in Springfield with my parents and my brother (who, due to a brain cramp, decided to attend there). We arrived on campus slightly before noon as a light snow began to fall. We did the campus tour thing, as well as a little wandering on our own. It was a Saturday, and we happened to notice that Miami was playing a 2:00 game at Millett. After a little prodding, I convinced my parents that we should attend--just to get a little bit of the true college flavor.

Well, I guess at this point I should point out that my senior year of high school coincided with Ron Harper's senior year at Miami. I couldn't tell you who Miami played that day (I think it was one of the directional Michigan schools), but Harp scored the first eight points of the game on dunks--the last of which he alley-ooped to himself. Now, I know I've been one of the guys here who has been somewhat critical of the ol' b-ball arena, but having come from a high school that could've fit it's entire student body on half of the student bleachers behind the north-end basket, I was mesmerized by both Harper and the college spectacle surrounding the game, and imagined myself as one of the "bleacher rats" in the future.

My next visit came on what might have been the most idylic spring day in history. The sky was a vivid blue, all the flowers were in full bloom, and Central Quad was teeming with lovely co-eds. I stopped by to visit a friend who was a freshman in Anderson. He gave me the more "student" oriented tour of campus, and it was at this point I decided this is where I wanted to matriculate. Once I received my acceptance, there was really little doubt as to where I wanted to attend. Plus, it allowed me to continue with the volunteer work I was involved in on the other side of the county. Can't say I've ever regretted my decision.
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PostPosted: Thu Jun 10, 2004 12:54 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

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I chose Miami because of the campus tour I took. The tour featured a group of female triplets who still to this day rank as some of the most stunning looking females I had ever seen. I was shocked at how pretty they were and thus chose Miami over IU and CC (I was wait listed at Notre Dame).

I had decided to call the triplets Friday, Saturday and Sunday....

To this day I'm still looking for them.


That's a Dahm good story.
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PostPosted: Thu Jun 10, 2004 12:57 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Since I was choosing architecture as a major, my school choices were limited but inorder to find a place I had to apply to 14 or so schools just to be safe. I had narrowed my list down to Carnegie Mellon, Virginia Tech, Syracuse, and waiting on a wait list at UVa. I had literally licked the envelope to mail my Va Tech acceptance back and place it in the mailbox when I noticed that the mail had already come that day, and sitting in the mailbox was my Miami acceptance (hadnt considered the school at all up until then.) I was still prepared to become a Hokie, when my mom conned me into making the 10 hour drive from New Jersey to Ohio to see the school. She dragged me out there kicking and screaming -I was not going to go. We pulled into the parking lot next to Cook Field and by the time we walked from Cook to the front steps of the Res I had completely changed my mind. THere is no tangible reason that I can impart to you other than to say it just FELT RIGHT. It felt like home. It felt in that 3 minute span to be such a wonderful place that all of my predispositions and prior decisions became insignificant. Divine intervention with the mailbox? Maybe. If it was, I am eternally thankful for it.
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PostPosted: Thu Jun 10, 2004 1:03 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I had to fill out a college survey the spring of my junior year at Centerville high school. One of the questions was “Which of the following schools are you most likely to attend?” They had listed every Ohio state-funded university. Well, I hadn’t planned on going to college in Ohio, as Northwestern and Michigan were at the top. I had never been to Oxford, and the only references of Miami I could remember were seeing ABC’s Jim Lampley review the MAC scores, and turning to channel 12 in Cincinnati to catch Reds highlights one day and seeing about a 5 minute clip on the opening of Yager Stadium. Due to lack of a better choice, I checked the ‘Miami’ box. Soon after, a packet of information came to my parents’ house.

I had just applied to Miami prior to attending a Red Carpet day the following fall. The Red Carpet event was my first time on campus, November 10, 1984. Remember it well. My high school was playing #1-in-the-country Moeller in the state football playoffs that evening (yeah, we won 10-7). It was dreary; cloudy with light drizzle. The leaves had already fallen from the trees. About as drab as the Miami campus can look… and I fell in love with it.

At that point I knew I didn’t need to apply to any other schools. This was back in the day when it was only mildly difficult to get into Miami. The Public Ivy’s book was either just out, or right around the corner. I spent most of the afternoon with goose bumps, thinking about what it would be like to walk around that campus every day. Received my acceptance letter in December and immediately notified Miami that I was on board.
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PostPosted: Thu Jun 10, 2004 1:32 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

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PostPosted: Thu Jun 10, 2004 1:34 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Steverem wrote:
I was mesmerized by both Harper and the college spectacle surrounding the game, and imagined myself as one of the "bleacher rats" in the future.


Glad to know that somehow, directly or indirectly, I was involved in your decision. Laughing

For financial reasons my options were limited to public, in-state schools (though I could have received a grant in aid to run track and CC at a few Ohio D-III schools, but these schools lacked the academic program I wanted) and some of those public schools were eventually eliminated as options due to the fact that they also lacked the program I wanted. Ohio State meet both of those needs, but was too big in my opinion. I narrowed it down to Toledo and Miami (I also threw in Akron only because when I took the ACT I was given the choice of having my scores sent to three schools). At that time (1982-83) the Public Ivy's came out and I knew then that Miami was the only choice for me. I never applied to Toledo and Akron. I've never regretted it.
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PostPosted: Thu Jun 10, 2004 1:40 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Growing up in northern Virginia, I've often had to answer the question, "Why Miami?" The story goes like this:

My senior year in HS, I was talking to my counselor about colleges and I rattled off my list of schools that I was applying to. I mentioned that I still felt like I should have another school in the mix, but I didn't know which one to add. She asked me if I knew anything about "Miami o f O hio". I told her, "I've seen their football scores on the sportstickers ... that's about it." The extent of her sales pitch to me was "I have two sons. One went to Harvard, the other went to Stanford, but I always wanted one to go to Miami." So, I figured ... what the heck, I'll apply.

After getting all my responses back, I had pretty much figured I'd end up in-state somewhere (although there was an infintessimally small chance that Michigan was going to take me off the wait list), but being the deliberate guy I am, I insisted on visiting Miami. I told my parents that it only seemed right that I should check the place out before deciding. My Dad and I left N. VA one Friday afternoon after school and drove almost 10 hours, only got as far as the exit off I-70 and got a hotel for the night. We got up early the next day and made the rest of the trip into Oxford.

I forget what time of year it was exactly, but I remember it being a beautiful Spring day. We took a tour. We walked through Uptown. My Dad says he knew I'd made up my mind in the first 5 minutes we were on campus. I don't remember it that way. I do know that we were only on campus for maybe 3 hours and then we hopped in the car and headed back home. Somewhere between the Res and the stables, I had made up my mind.
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How many other schools in the MAC would conjure up these types of stories, seriously??? Maybe OU - it IS a pretty campus. But you can't tell me someone could tell you these "romantic" college selection stories at BG, Marshall, etc. etc. etc.
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Our whole family drove up from Cincinnati one perfect spring Saturday morning so my older sister, who was considering Miami, could see the campus. I had heard about Miami -- mostly from my Grandmother who was a 1923 graduate -- but had never been there. I remember we parked someone near the Shriver Center and were immediately greeted by the Beta Bells. Having only seen the city colleges in Cincy, I was stunned by the beauty of the campus. Be the end of that morning, as an eighth grader, I had pretty much made up my mind I was going to Miami.

Three Little Sibs trips later, it was the only application I sent out, and I was accepted two weeks later.

Along with my older sister, my younger sister and two younger brothers are also Miamians, as our three of our spouses, including mine.
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How many other schools in the MAC would conjure up these types of stories, seriously??? Maybe OU - it IS a pretty campus. But you can't tell me someone could tell you these "romantic" college selection stories at BG, Marshall, etc. etc. etc.


Although I've never been there. I've heard that NIU has many of the same qualities that Miami has, athough not as strong athletic tradition.

Simple farming area surrounds the campus, decent access to big towns, pretty campus and co-eds etc...
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Three Little Sibs trips later, it was the only application I sent out, and I was accepted two weeks later.


This might be what my younger sister would write about her Miami decision. Wink
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As a kid I always hated UC and OSU. Don't really know why. I think at the time I decided that since everyone else liked them, I wouldn't.

That is one the first memories. Second, I went to soccer camp there when I was about 12. Staying in Flower Hall and hitting the snack bar late at night made me 'feel' like I was in college and it felt cool and independent. I knew then.

Third, my parents went to hockey games just as my brother became a freshman there (1993). I tagged along as a ninth grader and fell in love all over again. My parents would let my friends and I wander uptown after the game and I felt so cool. Don't laugh. I was enamored with Bruno's and the stories of Chuck Burgers. Ask KC Redskin, he may remember me. In fact, I kinda cheated by starting to play intramural hockey there my Junior year of High School.

All these things made it certain. I didn't care that it was close or my bro went there. I didn't care that majors were an afterthought when I applied. I applied to BG and OU b/c my parents made me. I loved it then and don't regret it at all. It was one of the best decisions I ever made.
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Being the youngest child, I had no L'il Sibs of my own to indoctrinate. But, the little sister of one of my best friends was made to apply to Miami by her mother ... who knew nothing more about Miami than the fact that I went there and I loved it. She was ready to go to William & Mary (I think), but her parents made her come visit me one weekend first ... it happened to be on a L'il Sibs weekend. Another HS friend of mine played football for UC ... he picked her up at the airport and drove up for the weekend. I gave her the tour around campus and we (my UC friend and my roommates) took her out to a few parties ... the whole time trying to play the roles of surrogate big brothers (she drew a LOT of attention from fellow party goers, if you get the nub of my gist). Apparently, she had a good time. I hear that as soon as she got off the plane, she told her parents she was going to Miami.
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I basically decided after a trip I took down there my senior year in high school. I went down with my brother who had a really good friend who was a Miami junior at the time. He and all of his friends took me and got me in through connections to just about every bar in town it seemed like and got me, to put it lightly, trashed. And those nights at the bar, where I saw some of the best looking girls I had ever seen, convinced me that Miami was right for me.

Plus the sweet 16 run during my senior year in high school with Wally didn't hurt my decision
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DawgFan, you're right on 3 accounts. In no way can NIU be considered a pretty campus. It's very plain, and spread out way too far. Plus, DeKalb is a much bigger town than Oxford... Lots of strip malls and such... think Richmond, IN.

Why did I go to Miami? It's the best school I got into, perfect distance from home, and the prettiest campus I saw. Pretty simple.
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Oh, yeah, and I almost forgot. One of the girls on my campus tour had the biggest boobs I'd ever seen.
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PostPosted: Thu Jun 10, 2004 3:57 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

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Oh, yeah, and I almost forgot. One of the girls on my campus tour had the biggest boobs I'd ever seen.


LOFL!!!!!




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But you can't tell me someone could tell you these "romantic" college selection stories at BG, Marshall, etc. etc. etc.


Miami is a beautiful place, but let's not get out of hand here... as a matter of fact, my wife literally stumbled upon Ball State on her way home from a campus visit at Miami (her small travel group encountered a bad thunderstorm on the way home, and stopped in Muncie for a meal and a rest). An impromptu campus tour ensued, and she fell in love with the BSU campus after one walk through Old Quad.

I had much the same reaction on my first visit to BSU... one meeting with the faculty in my intended major sealed the deal. It felt like home, instantly, and when the time came, I had no problem spurning my admission at Indiana, Purdue and several other schools, despite a great deal of pressure from relatives and my best-friend (who was headed there) to attend the former.

Different schools connect with different people.
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PostPosted: Thu Jun 10, 2004 4:23 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

MUDawgFan wrote:


Although I've never been there. I've heard that NIU has many of the same qualities that Miami has, athough not as strong athletic tradition.

Simple farming area surrounds the campus, decent access to big towns, pretty campus and co-eds etc...


decent access is an hour drive to Chicago, not so much a pretty campus, pretty plain and boring. and i never saw a hot guy, so the girls must not have been much to look at either. and i think you have to get on the toll road to get there. yuck, NIU.
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